Breast pumps, nursing vests, "closet to boob" bottles and even
a test to check you breast milk is up to standard (
yes - really!!). So much for cheap & easy! Like most things in life however, companies have caught on to the potential money to be made and started producing various breast feeding 'essentials'. The reality? You're really just throwing your money away on the majority of these products. So, to help save you from buying even more baby products that will gather dust (
because most end up doing that anyway), here's my guide on what not to spend your money on...
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Breast Pumps. I couldn't be without mine. In fact, without a breast pump I doubt we would have established breast feeding during those awful first weeks with John. Plus it's a must-have in terms of being a Milk Donor. However, it's by no means an essential for breast feeding. Expressing is great...if you can actually do it. Many woman can't. And that is by no means a measure of the amount of milk you produce for your baby. The thing with boobs is that
babies are designed to empty them, not a plastic device, so you'll find that a baby will always be more efficient in feeding than your breast pump. Obviously, if you're returning to work or becoming a milk donor, a breast pump can be invaluable but there's still to option to
hand express in these situations which some women find is even more effective than said piece of plastic. Basically, don't buy unless you
know you're going to need one.
Breast Pads. Ok, so when your milk first comes in, these are pretty essential but that's not to say you'll need them the entire duration for your breast feeding experience. Some woman are lucky enough to never really need them. But for when you do, it pays to know your options. There's the obvious disposable option but you can also invest in some reusable ones which like cloth nappies will last you more than one baby. But if you do decide on disposables, do a little research on the best brands first so you don't find yourself throwing money away! Here's my guide to the best disposable breast pads on the market.
Nursing Vests. Time for a comparison! A
standard spaghetti strap vest costs a mere £3.99,
add a couple of clips to it and we're miraculously up to £18! Mad, isn't it? Especially when you can buy said clips for just a few pounds. But fear not, if your sewing skills are not up to converting a normal vest into a nursing one, it doesn't really matter. You see that first vest? Well, the straps on it stretch and they stretch more than enough to let you pop your in & out. At first you might convince yourself you need a whole new wardrobe full of nursing friendly clothes but you'll soon find yourself back in your usual clothes & being a master of the one boob escape.
Bottles & Sterilisers. There seems to be this common misbelief that you
need to give a breastfed baby a bottle, whether that be to share feeds or avoid future refusal. But unless you're going back to work early or need to spend considerable time away from your baby, this is entirely avoidable. And the thing with bottles is that there is literally hundreds of different ones to choose from; "closest to the boob, the most natural, breast-like flow"... How do you even begin to choose? Well, from my experiences there seems to be a divide of two camps -
babies that will take a bottle & babies that won't. And generally, the bottle choice will be irrelevant. So don't spend a fortune on buying one of each bottle; instead give one a go & persevere; or hold out until 4 months & skip bottles completely, instead opting for sippy cups [which are also better long-term]. As for sterilisers; boiling water is free or a Tupperware with some Milton Solution is a long-tried & tested method of keeping your bottles in tip-top shape.
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Now, as for what you actually need - which isn't very much! First & foremost is boobs. And technically, that's it. But I always recommend having some Lansinoh Nipple Cream for sore & cracked nipples in the beginning (
plus it the best cream for teething rash when the time comes). Next is a a great support system, which I'll be talking about tomorrow.
And finally is a good nursing bra.

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Happy breastfeeding,
Great post. My top tip is to seek help as soon as you think you need it.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I spend ages finding good breast pads started with cheap disposables which was rubbish, then tried expensive ones they worked a treat. After 2 months I had a lightning moment when I was already doing reusable nappies and wipes why not breast pads. Brought them and totally love them.
ReplyDeleteI bought a Snoob - a stylish and 'chic' scarf and breastfeeding cover in one. It was great for breastfeeding in public and gave me and my baby privacy.
ReplyDeleteJust relax, baby can sense if your calm
ReplyDeleteExperiment with feeding positions. You'd be surprised how much difference finding the right one for you can make!
ReplyDeleteI sometimes found myself having to apologise for breastfeeding "Sorry he's crying on you, I think he's hungry, can I have him back to feed him please" Some of the older generation don't like it, they think bottle is best. My tip is don't feel bad, or guilty.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, I was one of the lucky ones that never needed breastpads
ReplyDeletetake your time and invest in a nice shawl for feeding in public
ReplyDeletemy tip would be to find out what groups and breastfeeding support is in our area before baby is born so you know where to go for support or just to meet other breastfeeding mothers
ReplyDeleteLove this post, which demonstrates so well how little you need compared to bottle feeding! I too would not have done without Lansinoh nipple cream...
ReplyDeleteI love their snoob breastfeeding cover- it gave me the confidence to feed whereever I needed to..
ReplyDeleteIt takes time and patience, but it's well worth it ... And a Snoob is a great help whejn out and about in public
ReplyDeleteThanks for linking to me! I loved your post, nicely said!
ReplyDeleteTry and relax
ReplyDeleteTry not to doubt yourself. Yes, an hour long feed followed by a 5 minute gap and another hour long feed is normal. It doesn't mean you don't have enough milk!
ReplyDeleterelax, and remember it is ok to struggle
ReplyDeleteBreast feeding support groups rule
ReplyDeleteMy top tip would be: be confident, smile at anyone having a nosey and find somewhere comfy to sit as you may be there a while!
ReplyDeletePrepare before the baby is born, e.g. get a sling, lactation consultant details etc.
ReplyDeleteFor me using a breastfeeding cushion has really helped. It so much easier to get her in a good position and helps my back too
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I didn't breastfeed x
ReplyDeleteEducate yourself before you have your baby, so you're prepared.
ReplyDeletedont be afraid to ask for help if you need it
ReplyDeleteJust do what feels natural x
ReplyDeleteDont stress about it or your milk could dry up .x
ReplyDeletePersistence!
ReplyDeletePersevere, enjoy, be confident, be comfortable, have fun, do it very often in the early days and whenever you need it afterwards
ReplyDeleteMy top tip is wear what makes you comfortable, I love my nursing tops, nursing vests and bras as well as my reusable breast pads.
ReplyDeleteKnow that in the early days it going to be very time consuming so take advantage get a comfortable seat and spend time being close to your baby
ReplyDeleteThank you for the read :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post, I love how little you need for breastfeeding!
ReplyDeleteRelax and confidence will come
ReplyDeleteRelax get help if you need it and dont let people put you off giving baby best start in life
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